Once you experience that unconditional love of God, that’s the time you feel so complete that you belong to yourself and aligned to the source. Your worth is not reliant on other people or any externals. You have no shame in the heart, no judgement even. All as it is. In that space, all experience is a way for growth and expansion. Even those experience that humans label as dark, or bad, are all teachers of the soul. And so it takes you to a space of gratitude to all experiences, whether labelled as good or bad. It takes you to a space of gratitude to the souls who volunteered…
For as long as you are not ready to receive healing. No amount of convincing of external factors can ever heal you. Like a victim minded person, will always experience to be a victim, if she thinks and feel that she is a victim. The same goes for addicts and abusers.